Canada's loss

Yesterday was a good day for Team Shellener. Mom was cogent, witty and alert for most of the day. She ate well, an important step toward getting rid of the feeding tube, and was able to share some basic but important information about her ribs that will decrease how much pain she endures during transfers and therapy.

For the first time, Mom was able to maintain her focus long enough to read some of her cards herself. As she got tired, she had a harder time keeping the lines in order (eg. reading line 1 then 4 then 2) but she still could relate who the cards were from and how people fit into her life. During physical therapy, she stood for 11 minutes twice, taking some hops as well. Mom's strength is better with regard to standing upright and maintaining conversation as she stood.

Mom also admitted for the first time that she is struggling with self-image, concerned that she looks older (64 to be exact even though she is only 53) and frail. Knowing she wouldn't really believe me on this one, I brought this up in front of Kelly and Bill. They were appalled of course and waxed at length over her loveliness. Being Mom, she said 'I don't feel that way. I feel like a female hockey player.' Quite funny.

Well, my morning caffeine is kicking in and it is time to get on over.

Hope you are all having a delightful and lazy Sunday-

j.c.